I'm worried and I don't know who to talk to

Sometimes it can feel that no one is listening to you, no one understands you and there is no one you feel okay talking to. There might be a lot going on in your life so you feel you can't cope. You might be feeling scared and alone. But there is a lot of support out there.

Counselling

Samaritans email jo@samaritans.org 08457 909090. Having a crisis? Can't cope with life? Want someone to talk to for support? When life gets tough Samaritans is there 24 hours a day.

What can I talk to them about?

Anything that's getting you down. This could be money, exams or worries about school, college or work, because you are self-harming or being abused, or perhaps because you are concerned about relationships with friends, partners or family. You can contact Samaritans at any time of the day or night about any personal issues

What will they do for me?

One of the Samaritans will listen to you and give you the time and space that could help you to find a way through your worries and concerns? They don't judge or advise, and they're there 24 hours a day.

Relate Relate offers advice, relationship counselling, sex therapy, workshops, mediation, consultations and support face-to-face, by phone and through this website.

The Ivy Centre also offers a Counselling in Sexual Health (CISH) service. For more information, click here.

Drugs and Alcohol

DASL (Drug & Alcohol Service for London). Previously known as Alcohol East. Anyone affected by a drinking problem can gain access to this broad range of services and programmes.

FRANK Free help and advice 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Helpline: 0800 776600

Addiction Hackney Community Drugs Services. Offers a free, confidential and accessible service to drug users (18+).

Add Action The first stop for advice and support in Hackney. Offers a free, confidential and accessible service to drug users (18+).

Drugsline This is an independent drugs crisis, information and support charity based in North east London. It provides free and confidential information and support for people with drugs and alcohol related issues, their families and friends.

BBC 

Narcotics Anonymous  A self-help group run by recovering addicts with a network of meetings across the country

Alcoholics Anonymous A self-help group run by recovering alcoholics. 

sorted4.info Info on drink & drugs in Kingston & Richmond - but generic 

know your limits Part of NHS choices - drink diary plus general info/advice

Domestic Violence

The English National Domestic Violence helpline is 0808 2000 247 (translation services are available for people where speak English is not their first language).They can offer you practical help and advice including

  • emergency refuge accommodation
  • safety planning and advice
  • translation facilities if you have difficulty communicating in English

Sexual assault and rape

The Haven Provides clinical services, counselling, and practical and emotional support.

Tel - 020 7247 4787

The police have set up special units to support people who have been sexually assaulted. These units are called 'Sapphire' and are based across London. 

If you want to press charges or would like advice you can find out more from their website: http://www.met.police.uk/sapphire/index.htm

Links for 12 - 24 yr olds

Health related links

Domestic violence links

LBGT

Broken Rainbow Tel - 0845 260 4460

galop.org.uk 

MEN

Mens Advice Line Tel - 0808 801 0327 (translation services are available for people where speak English is not their first language)

WOMEN

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